Which One Makes You Feel Cared For Or How Do You Show You Appreciate Someone?
'Everyone' loves in their own special way....do you want to find out how you can save yourself and other people from a tragic misunderstanding of the love language?
The Love Language isn’t just for the purpose of romance!
Not understanding someone's primary love language is equivalent to being deaf to their declarations of love First thing you'll acquire from this awareness is that you will stop feeling as if you’re doing all the work and getting nothing in return
And then, you'll strengthen, nurture your relationships with others to be more fulfilling, successful and happy by knowing what makes you feel good about yourself in the way that you give love (without anticipations)
Plus, you'll completely stop blaming others for the lack of giving you the love language you want or need, as firstly, people cannot be compared or expected to deliver your primary values of love without being aware of what makes your needs be met......and then
Because you'll discover and also learn to appreciate that someone's way of bestowing love towards you is just as meaningful, sweet and beautiful
Developed by marriage counselor and pastor Dr. Gary Chapman who coined the term “love languages” to explain how we express and receive love
Which is a construct to explain your emotional communication preference
The 5 Languages are grouped as follows:
Quality Time Physical Touch Acts of Service Gifts Words of Affirmation
Although all these are relevant to our personal connection with others the test singles out your primary list of love language, which can be used to connect and deepen your relationships with others
It does shed some light as to why some relationships seem to be characterized as being so much hard work, difficult to satisfy and the constant experience that each are pulling in different directions, being stubborn and resentful to each other - mostly because neither has worked out the why, what and how to get it right
By misunderstanding or ignoring someone else's needs (because we don't need the same things) is what can be completely destructive to significant relationships
Just by doing this simple test it will reveal your primary love language type and you may also be able to figure out someone else's type so that you can start to work on enjoying, appreciating and being grateful for each other's unique efforts
And hopefully, you'll both start to speak each other's love language to avoid the sense of emotional neglect or anguish due to the lack of effort that's required to make it work To seize something so profound and yet so basic, that may enable you to turn all your relationships to grow stronger, meaningful and long lasting
Try the 5 Love Languages profile link below, it will give you a thorough analysis of your emotional communication preference https://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/
Quote for us: Expressing love in the right language. We tend to speak our own love language, to express love to others in a language that would make us feel loved. But if it is not his/her primary love language, it will not mean to them what it would mean to us - Gary Chapman